A Prayer of Serenity / ANGEL FRIENDS
I'm sure every1 has heard this before but I just thought it might help to remind some people of the beauty in the world and to remember some words of wisdom.....Prayer of Serenity...God grant me the SERENITY to accept the things I cannot change the COURAGE to change the things I can and the WISDOM to know the difference....God Bless all who miss and Love Gabby so much only 12 with her whole life ahead of her it just isn't fair.....PEACE Close
I personally do not know you Chris or Mimi or anyone from your area, I saw Gabby’s site after visiting my ^I^ Cousin Ronnie’s site. I visited out of respect for your family and all who knew Gabby.
First let me tell you how sorry I am that such a thing could happen to Gabby, I look at her site and see what a wonderful child she was and how deeply she was loved by you. My heart breaks for you and all that love her. My heart is saddened to see the cruelty of the words from people on Gabby’s site. Let me ask this question: Why is Gabby’s parents personal and private business which happened before June 13, 2006 being mentioned on her site at all, this did not kill Gabby, a madman did. Let’s please not forget this.
This site was created as a memorial for her so that her parents, friends and anyone else who cares, to leave messages and words of kindness, love and sorrow. No one and I mean no one has a right to post trash on a little girl’s memorial site. I will personally give out my email address to all the cruel people who just want to write naughty comments, so that this once beautiful and innocent site can go back to being as beautiful and innocent as Gabby. Please what ever your problem is; please think of Gabby, she deserves our kindness and love. She is innocent in all this and deserves to have her parents treated with love and support and if you can’t do that then leave this site untouched by your cruelty.
Good morning Gabby. Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you. Always. No matter what people say your mommy and daddy love you very much. I know you are looking down from heaven giving them the strength they need to get through the day. You are deeply loved and greatly missed. We will never forget you.
My Parents are survivors / Message From Gabby If She Could Talk Read >>
My Parents are survivors / Message From Gabby If She Could Talk
My parents are survivors or so I've heard it said but I hear them cry at night when others are in bed I see them lay awake at night and I go to hold their hands they don't know Im with them to help them understand....Since I am in Heaven today I watch over my parents who cry for me each day...They wear a smile for others a smile of disguise through Heavens door I can see them tears flowing from their eyes........My parents try to cope with my death and try to keep my memory alive, anyone who REALLY KNOWS THEM knows its the only way they can survive....As I watch over my surviving parents through Heavens open door I try to tell them I'm with God and angels protect me Forever more I know this does't help them or ease the heartache that they bear....BUT I DO KNOW THEY HAVE SPECIAL FRIENDS ONES WHO REALLY TRULY CARE.....LOVE YOUR ANGEL IN HEAVEN
A MESSAGE FROM HEAVEN / TO GABBYS LOVED ONES LEFT BEHIND (READ ANONYMOUS )Read >>
A MESSAGE FROM HEAVEN / TO GABBYS LOVED ONES LEFT BEHIND (READ ANONYMOUS )
PERHAPS YOU'RE NOT READY YET TO HAVE TO SAY GOOD~BYE...PERHAPS YOU'VE THOUGHT OF THINGS YOU WISH YOU SAID~WELL SO HAVE I...FOR ONE THING I'D HAVE TOLD YOU NOT TO WORRY ABOUT ME...I'M WITH THE LORD IN HEAVEN NOW...YOU KNEW THATS WHERE I'D BE....I'M SORRY THAT YOU'RE FEELING SAD,FOR I AM SO HAPPY NOW...I'VE ASKED THE LORD TO EASE THE HURT AND COMFORT YOU SOMEHOW .......IT'S HARDEST IN THE BEGINNING BUT I KNOW YOU'LL MAKE IT THROUGH I HOPE IT HELPS TO KNOW THAT I'LL BE WAITING HERE FOR YOU !!!!(((XXOO)) HUGS & KISSES LOVE GABBY<3
Sandy Davis / Jaime Sharratt (Neighbor)
This Message goes out to Sandy Davis and all of the other inconsiderate people in this world. I may not have know Chris or Mimi for 15 years but in the time that i have know them, they have never given me any reason to believe that they are bad parents, they grieve for there daughter just as any parent would, they cant even tallk without choking into tears, and as far as god paying you back, if you actually believed in god or knew the first thing about him i doubt you would be saying that! I know Chris and Mimi love there children and as far as what happened 10 or 15 years ago, im not sure but it sounds to me that, you have a problem not with Chris and Mimi, but with yourself. you are rude inconsiderate and so much more. I dont know of any one person that would get on a memorial site for a little girl and bash her parents. do you realize that Gabby is in heaven listening and watching everything you do? you want to talk about god paying you back in weird ways well then i suggest you better watch out lady because the lord above will be coming for you! AND BY THE WAY YES I DO CONSIDER MYSELF A FRIEND TO CHRIS AND MIMI, AND WOULDNT HAVE IT ANY OTHER WAY! MAY GOD BE WITH YOU IN THIS TIME OF NEED.............Jaime Sharratt Close
To Gabrielle.... / Carrie Webster ((Passerby))Read >>
To Gabrielle.... / Carrie Webster ((Passerby))
Just thinking about you Gabrielle, Rest in Peace Sweety... God Bless the Family....
Its now been four months since you were missing,and nothing is the same.Already my day is starting out wrong,I turned the computer on then went outside, just to come back in and turn it off by mistake I don't know what I was thinking.Its still really hard trying to go on with each day knowing that your not here, where you should be,you are always on my mind as soon as I get up,I think of you all day and I'm thinking of you when I get ready for bed, I have my moments,everyday when I'm on my way to work and I'm listening to that song "Pages of love" I start crying which makes it hard to see and I think to myself is this going to be the day that I get to join Gabby up in Heaven,because I don't live for tomorrow anymore,I live one day at a time, you never got the chance to live for your tomorrows,12 years with you wasn't long enough you needed more years on earth, and now the world will never be the same ever again, Corey still misses you alot he just doesn't understand why his Gabby isn't coming home, he thinks if all the bad people would go away then you can come home, "you know how Corey thinks".I'm going to go for now, when I get in tonight I will be sitting in your bedroom writing in the book thats in there.
Remember I'll Always Love You !!!! You Will Always Be In My Heart & Soul !!!! I Miss You So Much !!!!
Sending you hugs & kisses to Heaven xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
I love you very much Gabby and I miss you alot ! Love always & forever Mom Close
PRAYING FOR YOUR FAMILY / FRIENDS OF ANGELS Read >>
PRAYING FOR YOUR FAMILY / FRIENDS OF ANGELS
fRIENDS OF ANGELS MARK FEARON AND LUKE NESBIHAL KILLED TRAGICALLY BY A NJ TRANSIT TRAIN ON OCT. 30 2005 WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS PEOPLE DON'T HAVE ANY IDEA HOW YOU FEEL UNLESS THEY WALKED IN YOUR SHOES WHICH THESE other people OBVIOUSLY NEVER WALKED IN YOUR SHOES ITS NOT THEIR DAUGHTER OR LOVED ONE BRUTALLY MURDERED SO HOW CAN THEY SAY THEY FEEL YOUR PAIN...THEY ARE CAUSING YOUR PAIN..WE KNOW THE FEELING ALL TO WELL...PLEASE KEEP US UPDATED ON THIS CASE WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU AND WE HOPE JUSTICE IS SERVED OUR ANGELS HAVE A WEBSITE ALSO STOP IN AND LET US KNOW HOW YOU'RE DOING ...GOD BLESS YOU:( <3 Close
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS / DONNA LEE FROM NEW JERSEY Read >>
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS / DONNA LEE FROM NEW JERSEY
TO THE LOVING FAMILY OF GABRIELLE I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL YOUNG DAUGHTER & FRIEND. YOUR STORY HAS TOUCHED MY HEART..iM SORRY TO SAY I KNOW THE FEELING WHEN MY GRANDMA DIED APRIL 2005 I LEFT THINGS FOR HER AND WHEN I WOULD COME BACK THINGS WOULD BE GONE THIS HAPPENED ALOT AND WAS VERY UPSETTING TO ME I CRIED LIKE A BABY WHEN IT HAPPENED AND IM 43 YRS YOUNG BUT IT BROKE MY HEART THRU INVESTIGATIN I FOUND OUT IT WAS MY OWN MOTHER(ESTRANGED)& HER BROTHER MY SUPPOSED UNCLE...THEY SAID I WAS ''JUNKING IT UP''AND IT LOOKED TACKY...I WAS LEAVING THINGS MY KIDS MADE FOR HER AT HOLIDAYS AND CARDS LITTLE TRINKETS NOT JUNKING IT UP AS THEY CALL IT...WHEN I FOUND OUT IT WAS THEM I DEMANDED MY STUFF BACK & YOU KNOW THOSE SICK A--S THREW MY STUFF OUT!!!THEY HAD A FEW ITEMS LEFT THEY RETURNED BROKEN..MUCH LIKE MY HEART MY GRANDMA WAS EVERYTHING TO ME SHE RAISED ME CAUSE MY MOM WAS TO BUSY FOR THE CHILDREN SHE HAD & COULDN'T BE BOTHERED WITH ME OR MY GRANDMA TIL SHE DIED & MY MOM WAS GETTING MONEY THAN SHE FOUND INTEREST BUT I WAS THE ONE WITH HER EVERYDAY FOR 43YRS WHERE THE HELL WAS MY MOM...RUNNING AROUND WITH MEN AND THINKING ONLY OF HERSELF JUST LIKE THE CREEP WHO MURDERED YOUR DAUGHTER A REAL NUTJOB ... ALSO I AM TRULY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS TO ALL WHO LOVE THIS LOVELY GIRL ..tO GABBYS FAMILY PLEASE HANG IN THERE JUST KNOW THEIR ARE PEOPLE PRAYING FOR YOU ALL OVER THE WORLD..GOD BLESS YOU ALL<3 Close
The Message / Dianne (jeanne Ketcham Memory Of) Read >>
The Message / Dianne (jeanne Ketcham Memory Of) The Message
Everything is different Since You've gone away My heart keeps on breaking Just a little more each day.
Don't look at this as an end But just the very start Together for eternity Never again to be apart.
But I feel so angry That God took you away I'm so scared and lonely And miss you every day.
Please know I didn't leave you I loved you all so much One day we'll be together To see, to feel, to touch.
You say you didn't leave Then why am I so blue? How can I get through the day When I need to talk to you.
I'm here and I will listen My love did not depart Ask anything that you want I'll answer in your heart.
This is an original poem I wrote for my brother to help with gief dealing with his wife's passing. Close
Friend/ Shannon Presock (Cousin, Neighbor, friend )
This is Gabby's site! It is a place where people give tributes and condolences. Where Gabby's friends and family can express how they feel and talk about Gabby.
I do not like leaving negative posts here. And the use of the MURDERERS name is just not appropriate! We will never know how Chris, Mimi and Corey are really feeling. I saw Gabby everyday for the last 3 years. And I know that I am having problems dealing with this which is nothing compared to what Chris and Mimi are feeling. So the other FRIENDS need to think how they would handle this.
Nobody from Gabby's family or their immediate friends are vandalizing the farm property. But you need to think how they feel having it as a constant reminder. They are many people who wish it was no longer there! Can you blame them!? I can't.
Yes, there is another memorial site which is temporary. And it is open to the public....you would know this if you were a true friend.
Gabby was not unsupervised! She left for reasons unknown, which is something that never happened before and everyone was looking for her!!! And Jeffery Daumer has nothing to do with this because he liked MEN or BOYS!
As for Corey, yes he is five years old, he is in pull-ups. He isn't dealing with Gabby's death very well! He refuses to use the bathroom until Gabby returns! This is normal, he doesn't understand! Ask his doctor!!!!!! As for his black eye...do you have kids? I personally know how Corey plays, it is not abnormal for him to have bruises before and after this terrible ordeal!
As for the question about Jessica...if you were a friend you would know the answer to that.
TRUE/ MIMI BECHEN (MOTHER)
It is true no one knows what me, Chris and Corey go through and how we feel everyday unless they have gone through the same thing, and if you have then come and tell me you know how I feel, just like people saying God had a plan for Gabby, if that was true God wouldn't have Gabby raped and murdered by the hands of a MAD MAN. I hate even talking about that thing on Gabby's Memorial Page. Jamie is right no one knows what its like to walk past Gabby's bedroom every single day and night, what its like to hear the school bus in the mornings Monday-Friday, to look outside and know that Gabby isn't on the trampoline or riding her quad.I walk in Gabby's room everyday and everynight and when I start to feel really, really lonely I go and sit in Gabby's bedroom and talk to her, so you tell me "FRIEND" do you know what its like? do they know what its like? I DONT THINK SO !!!!! It was extremely hard to sit in that court room on Sept 20th 2006 and hear how they cut my daughters head and found bruising on and around her head, to go in Gabby's private area and do more tests because THAT THING says she wasn't sexually assaulted or molested in anyway. GABBY WAS RAPED !!!!! So tell me 'FRIEND" how does that make you feel ???????? You and them need to put yourselves in OUR SHOES AND GABBY'S and tell us you know what its like BECAUSE YOU DONT AND NEITHER DO THEY !!!!!!!!!!!!
The Last minutes of Gabby's life! / Jaime Sharratt (Neighbor)
I can honestly say if my friends treated me the way you treat the bechen family, I would'nt consider you my friend, and that is a fact! If you had a child could you imagine walking in her bedroom every morning and seeing an empty bed and remembering the horrible details that were laid out for you in the court room about the last minute of your childs life, or seeing the school bus drive right by your house without stopping, knowing that Gabby should be on it! CAN YOU REALLY EVEN IMAGINE? Because i could'nt. Dear friend do you realize that the last hour of Gabby's wonderful life was spent with this pig , fighting for her life. I'm not sure why we must blame others but i do know that if my daughter would die on somone elses property at the hands of a killer, no-one or nothing would stop me from visiting her spirit there! they way i see it, if you want to talk friend, pick up the phone, all of our Numbers are in the white pages! so how about give the family some peace and when they enter this site let them read special things about there daughter or see pictures of there daughter, not a bunch of words put together by a total stranger and certainly not a friend! before i go, if you are so certain your facts are true, come sit through a court hearing with us, and hear the real facts and see the monster who did this! maybe you would feel that isnt so PROPER!
WE LOVE AND MISS YOU GABBY! THERE ARE NO WORDS THAN CAN EXPLAIN HOW YOUR DADDY AND MOMMY FEEL!Close
This site was created to remember Gabby / Mimi Bechen (Mother)Read >>
This site was created to remember Gabby / Mimi Bechen (Mother)
Gabby's death has affected everyone that knew her, especially her family, teachers and very close friends, people in the community that really knew who Gabby was, you have to be a friend of them and not a friend of Gabby's family because after all why hide your name ! and for the items thats missing only family members and close friends know what they are do you know ? And think about it, that thing didn't want them, he wanted helpless innocent kids, look at his record, how many kids were victims, including his own daughter who refused to testify against him. AND I DON'T KNOW WHY MY DAUGHTER HAD TO LOSE HER LIFE in order for this monster to be caught, THE JUSTICE SYSTEM HAS FAILED GABBY AND EVERYONE WHO TRUELY LOVED HER AND KNEW HER. Can you answer that one "FRIEND". I can't believe his wife still goes and sees him in jail after what he's done. So someone knew more about that thing then what their saying. But lets all remember this site is to remember Gabby. Close
Response to the friend / Shannon Presock (Cousin, Neighbor, Friend )Read >>
Response to the friend / Shannon Presock (Cousin, Neighbor, Friend )
First of all not naming yourself in a post and calling yourself a friend is just wrong! Obviously you are no friend at all, considering not all of your info is correct.
Don't forget that Gabby has a large family, she is related to everyone on Presock Road by blood!
The Bechen's lost their world! Have some respect and consideration!!! Close
It's that time / Kathy Gaskill (Best friend's mom )Read >>
It's that time / Kathy Gaskill (Best friend's mom )
Dear Gabby, I sure hope you are doing great and watching over family and friends. The last couple of weeks I have been having trouble with Marissa. One minute she is ok, then the next she is down and out. Sure do wish you were here, your smiling face and words of encouragement would help her. Wait. if you were here we wouldn't be having this problem with Marissa. Thanks to your mommy, daddy, and Corey, they have let Marissa be a part of their lives. It gives Marissa a since of peace. It's like you being there and she can talk to you. Gabby, I believe that my first time at your memorial site, there was a cat, it came from no where, I was sitting there and it bumped my arm to get my attention. If that was you, you can do that anytime. Marissa sure does miss you too. She asked me the other night to make sure that she gets to see your family soon. She's having withdraws. Gabby, please watch over mommy, daddy, Corey, And Marissa. Don't forget about your family members and friends too. You were one terrific girl. Do you remember the first time you stayed? Marissa had to have shots that day, and she ended up getting sick that night. I asked you if you wanted to go home, you said "no" I want to wait til tomorrow. She will feel better then. You never turned your head. That is what you call a faithful friend. See you soon, take care, watch over us, and we will see you in that home in the sky. Love ya, Kathy
THINKING OF U SWEET ANGEL / CHRIS BRAD EVANS MOM Read >>
THINKING OF U SWEET ANGEL / CHRIS BRAD EVANS MOM PLEASE KNOW U AND YOUR DEAR FAMILY ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GABBY. HERE'S A LITTLE BUNNY FOR YOU. HOPE HE MAKES YOU SMILE. STAY CLOSE TO YOUR FAMILY GABBY. THEY LOVE YOU SO. FIND MY BRADLEY, HE WILL MAKE SURE YOU KNOW YOUR WAY AROUND. I MISS HIM SO. HOPE YOU ARE BOTH GOOD FRIENDS BY NOW. HUGGS. XXOOXXClose